I never would have imagined that this past February would have turned out the way that it did. We were busy ordering Evy’s First Birthday decor the first week of the month and then on February 12th, our world fell apart after our 20 week ultrasound showed that Evy’s baby brother has a very slim chance of survival. However, there has never been a season of Evy’s life where I have been more GRATEFUL for her. I love her with everything that I am but when you find out that you’re going to lose a baby, it makes you cling to the baby waiting at home for you in a very new and special way.
We still celebrated Evy’s first birthday with friends and family. I honestly had moments where I just wanted to hide and cancel everything but I knew that I would regret that years from now. She’s the greatest gift to us and I’m so thankful that we celebrated not only her first birthday but we also celebrated her brother James as well.
During Evy’s 12th month of life, she decided that one of her favorite words was going to be “Momma”. She yells it when she can’t find me. She says it when I enter the kitchen and then reaches for me from her high chair for a hug. She’ll say it just so I’ll look at her and say “Yes Evy!”. She just loves saying it and it’s such a sweet gift to me during this hard season. When she says it, it’s kind of divided up into two words: “Mom-MA”! If I had to choose what my favorite part of this season is, it’s watching her walk/RUN around the house exclaiming “Mom-MA” at the top of her lungs.
She’s FAST. She started walking around the middle of her 11th month but this past month she has started running!!! She’s so QUICK!! Sometimes her speed gets the best of her and she lands hard. She’s had a few hard falls and some bruises but has yet to experience her first black eye! (unlike her cousin who got in a fight with a coffee table!).
Another important part of Evy’s 12th month was that she started SWIM SCHOOL and while her first class wasn’t her favorite, she loved it by her second class and now it’s a highlight of our week!!! She’s learning how to hold her breath under water, how to float on her back, how to climb out of the pool, how to kick and “paddle”. Michael gets in the pool with Evy and they have so much fun!!! Here are some things I want to remember about her 12th month! :
Waiting for their first swim class!
Oh dear… lots and lots of tears.
The grandparents came to watch!
It wasn’t all bad!
Cuties!
Look at Micah! hahahahahahaha
Just three naked babies! These three love being together!
They love their Mimi!
Ahhh, the second swim class was a night and day difference!
She loved it! It’s like a flip switched!
Hanging out at their picnic table inside since it’s still too cold outside!
Evy’s first Valentine’s day!!!!
Surprise! Evy’s first birthday gift from momma and daddy were these gymnastic play mats and these things get used EVERY SINGLE DAY! Morning and night! The babies love them!!!!
Huge thank you to our families for helping us make her party happen after a hard week with our news about James.
Since it was music themed, we had a sign that said “These are a few of my favorite things!” and we served Evy’s favorite food! Grilled cheese, fruit, Ritz crackers and colby jack, Chicken salad on White House Rolls (if you’re from VA and remember Ukrops…. you know what I’m talking about here!)! We also served juice boxes and honestly…. we had less leftovers than most events at our house! People love the simple things in life!
Face full of watermelon.
Our sweet one year old!
Grammy and Paw gave Evy her very own table and chairs and the babies love it!
She got so many gifts! We had to open them fast to keep her entertained but she loved it!!!!
A birthday bath because after her cake smash!
She never really “dove” into her cake like some babies but she did love it! Her daddy baked that cake for her!
Thank you Jilly for these. I love having some updated family pictures!
You can’t tell here… but I had just had a meltdown because I thought that all of her birthday pictures were lost. (Micah accidentally dunked the CF card in a glass of water!) It’s like Evy knew and she gave me the sweetest hug!
We took James to the lake!
I love her wide smile…. she gets it from her daddy.
Happy first year baby girl. It has been hands down the best year of our lives. We love you so much!
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