I’ll never forget the morning I woke up for my very first wedding.
Nervous doesn’t even begin to describe it. I was excited, sure. But my mind was racing with a million questions:
What if I miss something important? What if I mess up my camera settings? What if I totally fail my clients?
If that’s where you are right now, take a deep breath. I made a video just for you.
Watch it here: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My First Wedding
In this video, I share the five practical (and emotional) tips I desperately wish someone had given me when I was starting out. Whether you’re second-guessing your gear, unsure of how to prep, or just feeling plain overwhelmed — this is the video you need to calm the chaos and feel ready.
But here’s the truth…
Nothing prepares you for shooting a wedding quite like actually shooting one.
And I know — that’s the hardest part when you’re just getting started. How are you supposed to gain experience when no one’s giving you the chance?
That’s why I created KJ All Access.
It’s the next best thing to shooting alongside a seasoned wedding photographer in person.
What Is KJ All Access?
KJ All Access is my behind-the-scenes membership where you get to watch me photograph entire real wedding days — from the moment I arrive on-site and scout locations, to shooting details, portraits, the ceremony, reception, exit, and every unpredictable moment in between.
Over 300 episodes to choose from — all filmed with someone just like you in mind.
Whether you’ve never stepped into a bridal suite, never seen a full wedding gallery, or never used flash in low light — I show you exactly how to handle it all. You’ll see what I shoot, hear how I lead, and learn how I stay calm and in control when things get a little… wedding-day wild.
And the best part?
It’s only $29/month. No long-term commitment. You can sign up for a single month and soak in as much prep as possible before your big day.
Click here to join KJ All Access
It’s the best investment you can make before photographing your first wedding.
Here’s a Peek at What You’ll Learn in the Video:
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Why having the right gear (not the best gear!) can make or break your day
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How to prepare a timeline (or offer one to your couple!) like a pro
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What it means to think three steps ahead and lead with confidence
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How to get comfortable with your camera settings and flash before the day begins
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Why your mindset and attitude matter even more than your images
And the last thing I want you to remember?
Give yourself some grace.
No one shows up to their first wedding and nails it perfectly. But you can show up prepared. You can show up with a game plan. And you can walk away knowing you served your couple well — and took a huge step forward in your journey as a wedding photographer.
Also, if you like what you see, you can literally watch me photograph 100’s of wedding and portrait sessions by joining our KJ All Access membership for only $29/month!! Want a look at more? Try it HERE!
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Thanks for reading!
— Katelyn
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