In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend and coach Julia Woods, someone who has deeply impacted my life and my marriage for over a decade.

We talk about one of the biggest reasons people stay stuck: our inability to get curious about what we don’t know…we don’t know.

You see, we love being right because it makes us feel in control, but that often keeps us blind to the very thing that could lead to breakthrough. (And it’s what almost got me fired from coaching with Julia!!)

Julia and I unpack how this shows up in marriage, business, faith, and everyday life, and why tension is often a sign that something meaningful is trying to be revealed.

We also talk about pride, humility, shame, and how blaming others can feel safer than looking inward.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or like you’re doing “all the right things” but still not seeing change, this conversation is an invitation to pause, get curious, and consider what you might be missing.

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