BABY JAMES

To really know our family, there’s someone incredibly special who isn’t pictured throughout my site—but he’s still a big part of our lives and our story.

When Evy was just 8 months old, we were shocked (in the best way!) to find out I was pregnant again. But at our 20-week ultrasound, we got news no parent is ever prepared for: our baby boy had severe complications from Down Syndrome, and we were told he likely wouldn’t survive.

Much to the doctor’s surprised, he lived for 3 months inside of me. He passed away during birth at 31 weeks on May 1st, 2018. We met him and said goodbye at the same time. Carrying a baby with a fatal diagnosis changed us forever and has impacted thousands of lives.

If you'd like to know more about our journey and the little boy who made us parents of a child in heaven, you can read more here.

the story of our

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Podcast Episode

Ep. 37 | Where is God in Grief

6 Years after a Stillbirth

Podcast Episode

Ep. 3 | Sitting In It

The Power of Pain That Stays

Blog Post

Helping Others Understand

Helping a Friend Through a Fatal Fetal Diagnosis & Stillbirth

Blog Post

Preview of James' Story & Our New Season

A Story of Loss and Hope

Blog Post

4 Months Later

Life After Losing Baby James

Blog Post

To My Baby on His Due Date

A Letter to Baby James

Blog Post

Baby James' Birth Story

A Story of Loss and Hope

Blog Post

Dear James Michael

A Letter to Our Baby Boy

View our Plan

A resource that helped to bring gentleness and peace in the midst of our grief.

James' Birth Plan